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hi beautiful you I’m dr. Diana Kirchner you may know me from my Amazon Prime TV special love in 90 days and today’s topic is incredibly important it’s bad dating advice you should never take yes yes yes yes yes there are so many dating advice gurus they’re everywhere many of them actually give advice because they themselves have managed to get married but they don’t know other people’s unique situations and so they’re giving the same kind base for their one little approach that may have worked for them you know what we do is we look at how to create dating and love success using research about what really works and happy come Olson we’ve had tens of thousands of clients in their love mentor coaching program so we have so much clinical data so let’s get right to it first piece of dating advice you should never take number one you can make a guy want you or you can make a guy like or love you there’s a lot of advice out there that’s based on this bad dating advice the truth is you can never make someone love you you know it’s either there or it’s not you can never make someone want you to want to be with you intimately sexually it’s either there it’s called chemistry or it’s not right and so you really can’t there are things you can do to help yourself become more confident charismatic it’s your charisma going your mojo go language optimizes your ability to attract guys but you can’t make anyone love you number two is sometimes you know there’s advice about being very manipulative and being in ice cream you know you’re unavailable you’re not even going to make out with a guy he’s got to chase you he’s got to do all the work if you make out with him and may be like you’re leading him on and you’re a tease and you’re you’re really keeping that ice clean boundary that’s another piece of bad dating advice number three is never make the first move in the beginning or never make any move in the beginning in terms of initiating of being proactive about making contact about suggesting a date that kind of thing texting you know you want to show interest you want to make a suggestion about getting together taking things to the next level if you’re just texting you want to suggest talking on the phone if you just phone in you want to suggest getting together to do something you guys really both enjoy you don’t want to continue to take the lead because you want someone to pursue you and show that they’re crazy about you’re really interested in you so you want the guy to take the lead for the for the most part but if you never take the lead and initiating anything chances are the guy’s going to feel like you don’t like him in the beginning so that is a very important tip also number four is don’t be real there’s a lot of dating books that are very strategic about how you need to act and you know and again it’s about this business of not being too available and so and then there are things that they tell you to say and do and a lot of times a lot of women will actually feel uncomfortable and like they can’t be real or they’re not supposed to be real after all there’s so many dating advice books and dating advice gurus but it’s so important to be real because if you’re with your soulmate it’s gotta be that you connect at this level of being real together to be your real authentic self to speak your truth to have fun that’s based on your real interest and your unique quirky nature you know you want to be real that’s very very important another piece of bad dating advice is if it’s meant to be it’ll just happen right so there it is what other thing in the universe would happen if you took that attitude I mean you were meant to learn French would it just happened if you’re meant to have muscles would they just happen no you want to put yourself in a position you’re meeting people and learning about dating if you haven’t been out there in a while and part of this whole thing is that you’ll know right away if you met the right guy well you’re not going to know right away if you met your soulmate you’re just not you know so that’s another whole area of bad dating advice and number six is to have sex soon soon soon because sex is what gets a guy to be interested in you and if you don’t have sex right away he’s going to dump you wrong wrong wrong this is what a lot of Millennials do hook up hook up hook up and they come to us and ask us what to do because they’re lonely and miserable and they want a relationship and they don’t have a real relationship you don’t want to press through and you know really violate your own boundaries and have sex too soon that’s that’s not that’s not something that is really going to make everything happen often that results in a big flame out what I call flame out where’s just too much intimacy too rapidly and things just completely fall apart so there you have it six pieces of bad dating advice you should never take so definitely bear that all in mind and I want you to know that this is just a little part of what you can learn 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