Dating Advice for Women | What Men are Looking For in a Wife | Christian Dating Advice

Committing to “the one” is probably one of the most important decisions we will ever have to make. But, what do men want in a wife? In this video, I share dating advice for women by listing the qualities that most Christian men are looking for in a woman. Make sure to stick around to the end for a bonus tip!


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– Hey, everyone. Welcome back to Rhoades24eva. I’m Kyle.
(clicking) And today,
(bell rings) I’m here by myself because one of our subscribers, TerryAnn, asked the question, “What does a godly man
look for in a wife?” So today, I’m here to answer that question from my perspective. Now, keep in mind, other
men may have other opinions. So, let’s jump right into it. One of the things I looked for in a wife was that she had a relationship with God, independent of me. And that was really important for me because I didn’t have to
convince her to believe in God. I didn’t have to convince
her to go to church or, you know, to read the Bible, or any of those things like that. Because you want someone
that you are going to be able to do these things with. Not someone that you’re
gonna have to drag along or force them to do these things because you’re supposed to have
that relationship together. So, for me, that was really important because I was developing
my relationship with God and I was looking for
someone that was going to, not only help me develop my relationship, but that I could also help
develop their relationship, so that we could meet God together and be equally yoked. Another thing is that
she had to be supportive. Now, for me, this is another
really important point because when I first met Terry, I shared my dreams and things with her. You know, things I wanted
to achieve in life. And what really stuck out to me about her is that she supported those dreams. She was my number one fan. Matter of fact, she still
is my number one fan. I’m surprised you don’t hear her rooting in the background now,
but at the end of the day, she’s my number one fan. And she always had my back. And as a man, that
really made me feel good knowing that when I go out into the world and I face these different
things that come up, I know that if I have a rough day, I can come back home,
tell Terry all about it, and she is going to be there to support me and just encourage me to
continue going out there being my best. So, that was a really big thing for me. Another thing I needed in a godly wife was that she was beautiful
internally as well as externally. Now guys, this was
extremely important for me because, at the end of
the day, looks fade. The external looks really will fade. We get older. Things start falling out (laughs). Hair, obviously, and just
things start to just change. And if you’re just in love with someone because of the way they look, as soon as that changes, you’re gonna fall out of love with them. And at the end of the day,
that’s not really love. Because in the Word of God, in 1 Samuel, it says, you know, “Man
looks on the outer appearance “but God looks on the heart.” So, I was looking for
someone that had beauty on the inside that could not
only grow, but last forever. Versus someone who just
had external beauty and was pretty much ugly on the inside. So, that was another really
important thing for me. Another thing that was important to me is that my wife had to be forgiving. Because, let’s be honest
guys, we’re all human, we all make mistakes. And there are gonna be some times where we don’t see eye-to-eye, and we may hurt one another’s feelings. But it was important for
my wife to understand the power of forgetting, forgiveness, I’m sorry. And be able to look past those
situations or those setbacks and be able to come back to a place of love and understanding. And it’s also like our
cousin, Sheka, actually says. A marriage is basically the
union of two good forgivers. That’s the only way a marriage is going to grow, stick together, and be
able to continue to develop. Another huge aspect of my godly wife was that she had to be my best friend. Now guys, think about your best friend. What do you guys normally do?
(clicking) Or what does a best friend
(bell dings) mean to you? For me, it meant that was my roll-dog. Like, regardless of what happened, or if anything happened, the first person I was going
to reach out to was her. The first person that I wanted to see in the event of a situation would be her. We could do anything together. We could laugh together. We could cry together. We could pray together. We can do whatever together. Literally, we could do nothing together and still enjoy, you know, still be happy because we were
in one another’s presence. So, if I’m gonna… If was gonna spend the rest of
my life with this individual, those things had to be there. And she had to be my best friend. So, Terry-Ann, I hope that
answers your question. Again, thank you guys for watching. If you guys like this video, be sure to give it a
thumbs up, all the way up. Comment down below to let us
know what you’re thinking. And subscribe for more awesome content
(clicking) just like this
(bell dings). And before you go, I wanna leave you with this thought. You’re only one prayer away. Thanks for watching, guys. We’ll see ya next time. Bye, guys.


    Amyas Franklin

    (11/09/2019 - 7:56 pm)

    Such positive words Kyle. Way to be transparent!

    Indie Toby

    (11/09/2019 - 7:57 pm)

    Thanks for watching this video! Let us know your thoughts:-)

    Jerrold Tatum

    (11/09/2019 - 7:57 pm)

    Another awesome video!

    Aaron Read

    (11/09/2019 - 7:58 pm)

    Great info for a guy’s perspective!!

    Millard Rylie

    (11/09/2019 - 7:58 pm)

    Great video!!

    Lauraine Rylie

    (11/09/2019 - 7:59 pm)

    This is a very smart and creative video.

    Mimi Londyn

    (11/09/2019 - 7:59 pm)

    I Agree! Couldn’t argue much about those things!

    Lauraine Edmund

    (11/09/2019 - 8:00 pm)

    Biggest fun here

    Jerrold Brody

    (11/09/2019 - 8:00 pm)

    Spot on man!

    Rosaleen Jerry

    (11/09/2019 - 8:01 pm)

    very, very true! not interdependent, but each depend on God’s wisdom and strength.

    Giselle Edmund

    (11/09/2019 - 8:01 pm)

    yes, I recommend this video !

    Amyas Toby

    (11/09/2019 - 8:02 pm)

    Great advice! Thanks for sharing! ♫♪♩ 20/S

    Madonna Harding

    (11/09/2019 - 8:03 pm)

    Nice to hear the gentleman’s side

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