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she cannot build a home on romance alone like I told a couple the other night in my study I said you better make sure you in love she’s very beautiful and you’re very handsome but you’re gonna have to love her when she’s fat and 40 and you’re gonna have to love him when he’s bald and bulging now a lot am I trying to say all you think this thing’s rude God says your adornment your secret thing that makes you pretty what is it let it be the hidden person the hidden man at the whore part and that which is not corruptible underline it lady that which is not corruptible even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit which is in the sight of God of great price now what is the ornament that will make you beautiful I’m meek an applied spirit now many ladies depend completely upon the planning of the hair the wearing of gold and the putting on of apparel they depend completely upon this this is not your adornment this is not where your beauty lives what’s wrong with depending completely upon this lady you’re putting all your eggs in one basket you’re fighting a losing battle you’re getting older every day but God says there is an ornament that’s not wrong there is something that old father time can hurt and this is the beauty on the inside the ornament of a meek and a quiet spirit which is in the sight of God of great price oh how we need whisp wisdom to use that and help me this physical needs but also wisdom to meet our husband’s spiritual needs but let me say just a word to the men right now you need to be understanding and you need to be considered who can find a virtuous [Music] kill her price is far above rubies the heart of her husband uh safely trust in her purity whole thank God for pure mothers thank God for COD Lima we need some pure mothers some mothers who are godly mothers some pray mothers a virtuous woman Oh heaven help us if we don’t have a generation of mothers and it needs to start with the mothers in this congregation who get the sin out of their lives and who bring back the family altar and prayer and leadership of their Chu these are pillars foundations of a happy home proverbs 14 verse one every wise woman build it her house are you listening mothers every wise woman build it her house I want to say that the first word is planning a godly home does not just happen it has to be conceived in the heart and mind it has to be planned and promoted in prayer and built by the aid of God’s Holy Spirit many of you have studied about everything else you’ve gone to school you’ve studied psychology you’ve studied arithmetic some of you ladies have studied budgets and all of the rest of it with your not studied God’s Word to see what the Bible teaches about rearing children and about having a home and let me say something girls this planning needs to start before you get married before you get married let me tell you something don’t be in too big a hurry to get married let me give you some do nots number one do not marry an unbeliever are you a saved girl this morning are you a Christian girl did you know that it’s a sin against Almighty God for you to marry a non-christian did you know that did you know that God has said be not unequally yoked together with unbelievers that if you are saved if you’re a Christian that it is absolutely contrary to the will of God for you to marry a person who is unsaved all you say brother Rogers I’ll marry them and then I’ll change them friend you’re not smarter than God you talk about having in Laurel if you marry a child of the devil you’ll have a devil for a daddy in law don’t you know that let me give you a little advice if the man does not love the Lord Jesus Christ and if he will not give his heart to the Lord Jesus Christ and serve the Lord Jesus Christ then you marry someone else disassociate yourself with that person I don’t care what your romantic inclinations are all their wives in this congregation this morning who would give the last ounce of blood in their veins to see their husbands come to Jesus Christ they stepped outside of the will of God and married an unsaved first and furthermore girls you ought to say that the lips that touch whiskey will never touch mine you’ll be a lot happier now let me say something else don’t marry under the influence of too much moonlight and roses these things are wonderful and these things are fine but you cannot build a home on romance alone there’s going to come a time when there’ll be some dirty diapers and your blood pressure will be up and your bank account will be down and the moonlight and roses are not going to matter too much then you think this through and you ask yourself my dear dizzy headed girl when you’re so much in love now if you’re willing to spend the rest of your life with this man let me tell you something else don’t you marry under pressure don’t you come to the place where you say well all of the rest of the girls are getting married this may be my last chance I’m eighteen already I’m going to be an old maid don’t you marry under pressure let me tell you something my dear young lady there are a lot of things worse than being an old maid there are many things worse than being an old maid God has someone for you you pray you seek the will of God the Bible says you’re to marry in the Lord but oh how we need to plan our families a wise woman build with her house she doesn’t just think that it’s going to happen she plans that she conceives that she lays the foundation she builds it would you notice in proverbs 15 verse 27 he that is greedy of gain trouble it his own house he that is greedy of gain problem is own house materialism will trouble your household dear sir and dearly this is what’s wrong with many people there are greedy of games most of the people on this island think that if they have plenty of money that everything is alright sex and materialism have become the gods of this place and because materialism and sex have become the gods there are many homes that on the rocks today money will not make your home happy oh if we could only teach our children and teach ourselves to enjoy the plane the wonderful the simple the beautiful things that God has given us oh we get all dressed up and we think we’re so wonderful all dressed up on the outside between 50 on the inside somebody has said there’s been on many a 25-dollar hat on a 10 cent head we are so wrapped up in the things of this world one lady and it’s amazing what we think we have to have one lady went to the welfare said oh I need help no welfare lady said well tell me about it she said we just don’t have a thing hardly why my little baby has to sleep in a cardboard box oh the welfare lady said that’s bad we’ll help you we’ll help you she said I’m glad to hear that just think of it our little baby fast asleep and that box our color television came in isn’t it bad dear friend dear friend what it’d be wonderful if in your home you could gain a new sense of values I want you to think about the things that really matter not only do we need plainness of simplicity but a Christian home is one of peacefulness proverbs 17 verse 1 better is a dry morsel and quietness therewith than a house full of sacrifices with strife did you hear he’s talking about your home listen better is a dry moss and quietness there with that a house full of sacrifices would strike what is God saying God is saying that a meal even though it be very simple even though it be very plain a meal eaten in good fellowship a meal eaten with joy and peace and contentment is better than a freezer full of space if you’re arguing all the time that’s what God is saying God is saying oh how wonderful it is for a home to be a place of peace I don’t know of a sweeter more wonderful happy dear place on earth and a home when people are living together in peace and I don’t know of a place near that near to hell than a home when people are not right with one another and they’re arguing proverbs 21 verse 9 it is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop than with a brawling woman in a white house the reason we didn’t have any amens all the men are sitting by their wives it is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop than with a brawling woman in the white house oh how horrible how terrible it is when there’s arguing and fussing and bickering in the home all our homes need to be places of peacefulness as God Almighty has said there are some people who had rather see the devil work in than to see their mate walking all right now the next word is pardon [Music] proverbs 17 verse 13 whoso rewarded evil for good evil shall not depart from his house whoso rewarded evil for good evil shall not depart from his house this is God’s statement in the Old Testament of the golden rule that we are not to return evil for good but we have to return good for good and good for even this is just another way of saying that we need to forgive one another we need to let the spirit of forgiveness and pardon be in our homes you’re gonna make mistakes because you’re human you’re going to make mistakes dear lady because you’re human oh but we need we need to forgive we need to part there’s a verse that’s a favorite verse in our house I suppose our children all know by memory it’s Ephesians 4:32 be calm tender-hearted forgiving one another even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you there are some men in this congregation who would die before they would apologize and say I was wrong and I am sorry we need to pardon all the pardon the sweet love of the Lord Jesus Christ someone has said a man ought to be as patient with his wife as he is when he’s waiting for the fish to bite in an amazing that sometimes we have the shortest tempers for those that we love the most the next word is the word prudence and we must hurry on prudence it means wisdom wisdom notice in proverbs 19 verse 14 house and riches are the inheritance of fathers and a prudent wife is from the Lord a prudent wife is from the Lord now the Lord amplifies this word prudence a little bit more looking proverbs 24 verse 3 [Music] through wisdom is a house built you see he’s talking about building a house a woman that builds her house the prudent woman through wisdom is a house building and by understanding it is established and by knowledge shall the Chamber’s be filled with all precious and pleasant riches you cannot my dear friend build a home without wisdom God’s wisdom without prudence God’s prudence not the kind you think of not the kind you get from the Ladies Home Journal but the kind that you get from the Word of God if any man lack wisdom let him ask of God that giveth to all men liberally and upbraideth not and it shall be given him all we need so much wisdom but some of you are say well my husband doesn’t go to church my husband is not sane my husband’s not a Christian how am I going to win my husband to the Lord now God says the way to win an unsaved husband dear lady use a little wisdom the way to win an unsaved husband is not by nagging him now that’s plain and you can prove it ask yourself right now how much good is your nagging done not one bit God says he’d be one without renege give me one without your words by your behavior the way you live dear ladies to weigh you to win your husband to the Lord Jesus Christ and I’m sure this same thing is true the way a saved husband would win an unsaved wife tool but the problem is we generally have saved wives and unsafe has a wise woman build at her house God give us Christian godly mothers and fathers and she now let me make a plea are you listening can I have your attention all of the attributes that I’ve mentioned here this morning are not attributes that come from within the human breast all of these attributes are god-given things these are not things that you can just simply resolve that you do in your home because you don’t have the strength to do you cannot live this way you cannot have this kind of home until you have Jesus [Music] you 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